Monday, October 10, 2011

Mediocrity knocking!

QLC, anyone?

The quarterlife crisis (QLC) is a term applied to the period of life immediately following the major changes of adolescence, usually ranging from the ages of 21 - 29. The term is named by analogy with mid-life crisis. It is now recognized by many therapists and professionals in the mental health field. (wikipedia)

Characteristics of quarter-life crisis may include:

· frustration with relationships, the working world, and finding a suitable job or career (I love being in a relationship with books. I can't write and I can't be a librarian. So all I am is a reader.)

· confusion of identity (I know.)

· insecurity regarding the near future (definitely until the gas price becomes affordable again.)

· insecurity concerning long-term plans, life goals (ha!)

· insecurity regarding present accomplishments (hindi na ko natuto mag-violin, and I can never be a real yogini.)

· re-evaluation of close interpersonal relationships (hmmm.)

· disappointment with one's job (not naman disappointed. maybe bored?)

· nostalgia for university, college, high school or elementary school life (I miss being carefree AND being careless.)

· tendency to hold stronger opinions (most likely!)

· boredom with social interactions (anti -social ba kamo?)

· loss of closeness to high school and college friends (I live in another mountain now, if that's what you mean.)

· financially-rooted stress (overwhelming college loans, unanticipatedly high cost of living, etc.) (I think about money all the time. tsk.)

· loneliness

· a sense that everyone is, somehow, doing better than you. (I couldn't care less.)

If you want to read more on QLC, click this and this.

Introspection: 

It's comforting to know that what I'm going through is recognized by health professionals and experienced by my peers. Not that I want anyone else feeling this way, but at least I know I'm not crazy. Ho-hum...

"I'd rather do nothing and be happy then do something I know I don't love." - Jack Fuller